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How My Christian Faith Fell Apart | A Case Study of Deconstruction

August 26, 2020 Sara Martin 19 Comments

Don’t judge a book by its cover, or you’ll miss the story behind it.

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Posted in: Religion Filed under: agnostic, community, deconstruction, depression, empathy, evangelical, exvangelical, sexuality

Stepping into My Sexuality for the First Time, at Age 25

February 8, 2019 Sara Martin Leave a comment

People aren’t supposed to be sexual until marriage. Period. And that’s what I spent my most of my life believing. I…

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Posted in: Sex Filed under: body image, deconstruction, exvangelical, purity culture, self discovery, self love, sex, sexuality, shame

How a Failed Relationship Shattered My Blind Christian Faith

January 13, 2019 Sara Martin 6 Comments

A story of religious manipulation and personal awakening.

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Posted in: Relationships, Religion Filed under: Christian dating, Christianity, college, deconstruction, depression, evangelical, legalism, manipulation, marriage, porn, purity culture, sexuality, spiritual abuse

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Written June/July 2021 in memory of my friend and life coach, Steve Austin. 💙
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I haven't read a book this thick since the last Ha I haven't read a book this thick since the last Harry Potter book came out. It's even got the same smell. 😀 Anyone else oddly enjoy the scent of new books?
I had one of those moments today. I felt in-the-mo I had one of those moments today. I felt in-the-moment joy, like life is good in this body on this planet in this moment in time. I was on a walk with my family. I looked up above the green trees and saw a blue sky with wispy clouds cradling the pale moon, a speck of an airplane passing by it and a thin white line trailing behind. The early summer air held the scent of grilling wafting from backyards and flowers that tugged at some vague summer memory from the past, pulling up a feeling of nostalgia with it.⁣
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I wish it were easier to feel moments like this. Just in the present, happy to be existing moments. Not weighed down by existential thoughts. The heaviness of reality. Of the human condition. The suffering that exists in the world. It's like my brain's default is to operate in existential dread mode. ⁣
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I feel a responsibility to carry this heaviness around with me. Like it's the least I can do, to acknowledge my place as a human being in a world so corrupted by humanity. Can I still be a responsible tenant of this place I call home though, and allow myself feel more moments of joy to exist here?
@alysonstoner is a wonderful human. Their book "Se @alysonstoner is a wonderful human. Their book "Semi-Well-Adjusted Despite Literally Everything" was a gift to read, and getting to hear them speak in person  was incredible. I especially resonated with their religious deconstruction journey woven throughout their story. Thank you, @alysonstoner, for inspiring another writer to keep pursuing telling my story, too (despite the, ahem, "challenges" of publishing a book 😂). Now go buy a copy of their book!!
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